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Biographyby Janet I. Herron |
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Adulthood to Early
30’s
In January, 1968, my husband was
drafted into the Army and I enrolled in college for the fall quarter. It would be at least a year before we knew
where he would be stationed long term and knowing this, we both felt
this would
be the perfect opportunity for me to start college. We literally sold some beef cattle to get the
money to pay for my tuition and books. But I was to get another surprise before college started in the
fall. My husband surprised me with a
visit before he was shipped overseas and I surprised him three months
later by
telling him I was pregnant. It was our
first wedding anniversary.
In 1968, “good girls” went
to college and those who were married and pregnant were supposed to
stay at
home. Somehow that slipped my mind and off
to college I went. The first year was a
struggle, not academically, but personally. Many of the students avoided me and several of the older
professors told
me that I had no business being in college when I should be at home
being a
wife and mother. Our daughter was born
during mid-term week, winter quarter. She had birth defects and would later become epileptic, so life
won out
over college for a while. Her sister,
born 2-1/2 years later, was also plagued with birth defects. Eventually the bills would become too much
and I needed to find a career where I could make enough money to make
it
worthwhile and in a field of study that would keep my attention for
many years
to come.
In July, 1976, my then 49 year old
father died when an aneurism ripped one of the valves from his heart. That fall, I went back to college, regardless
of the protests from my family. I was
motivated by my father’s death, my main ally in my quest for an
education, and the need to support my children, while providing them
with the
best health care that my husband and I could provide.
For months my husband created every
road block that he could to discourage me from going to college. His ego told him that it was his job to
support his family and my job to take care of the family, just like our
mother’s had always done. Nothing
I said was going to convince him otherwise, so I prepared myself for a
divorce,
but told him that he had to pay for my college expenses until I was
finished,
so I could support our children. I was
so mad at him during this time, because I felt betrayed. He knew that I had always planned to go to
college and have a career and family, and I did not see that that had
changed
because our children were ill. If
anything, I needed to go now more than before because I knew why I was
going
this time.
He was scared that if I got this
education, it would change me and I wouldn’t need him and our family
any
more. Fortunately for us, one of the men
he worked with and respected straightened him out on his issues. When realization hit that this was to benefit
our family, not destroy it, he became my greatest supporter and has
continued
to be my best friend throughout the many years that I have attended
college and
developed my career. I graduated in 1978
with my Associate of Science degree in Architecture and Building
Construction,
the only female in class and the oldest person in class. I was 28 years old and it was my 11th wedding anniversary.
Following graduation, I went to work
at National Cash Register (NCR), with a starting pay of around
$16,000.00
annually. I worked as a draftsperson in
the research and development department. The team I worked for designed the UPC Scanners in the grocery
stores
and the label scanners in department stores. We received many patents for these products and I personally
received
two. After five years at NCR, I took
another job, closer to my home, so I could get home sooner in the
evenings and
I could stay with my daughters in the mornings until the school bus
arrived.
At McGraw-Edison I was hired as the
Restructuring Manager, where I introduced computers to the company and
taught
them how to develop Bills of Materials, time studies, and numerous
other work
related tools. We also installed one of
the first CADD systems in
Middle transition
A few days later, a representative
from O.U. contacted me about returning to
The advisor and I had decided with my background in Architecture and building construction that I could best develop my degree by going into the Industrial Engineering field. So I got a student handbook and started requesting every syllabus that pertained to topic areas where I had experience. This was one of the most difficult assignments I ever had in college. I was convinced that I knew nothing and that I was completely wasting my time by going through this at my age. My daughters were in high school and playing sports. Because of their health issues, we not only went to games, but one of us also had to be at their practice sessions. My husband and I both had full time jobs and we had a working farm that had to be maintained.
As much as I hated to do it, because of my
first
experience on this branch campus, I decided it was best for me to take
the two
remaining classes on campus. My first
class was exciting and left me hungry for more, but the second class
was another
story. The professor and I were near the
same age and he had just recently gotten a divorce. He made an issue of me being older than many
of the other students in the class. Often he would ask questions, then refer to me as an example of
what not
to do or become. When taking tests, he
asked us to paraphrase our answers, but when he graded mine, he wanted
the
exact answer that was in the book. When
I tried to talk to him about the issue, he told me it was my problem,
not
his. So when I finished my final exam, I
stood up to leave and announced that would be the last exam that I ever
took. He said you’re pretty sure
you’re
going to pass this one? Being flippant,
which is totally uncharacteristic of me, I said I better pass it. His answer to me was “and what will
you do if you don’t? I think
I’ll be seeing you next quarter.” Then I showed him the copies of the other student’s test papers
that they had given me and then I walked out. He gave me a “C”, but I didn’t care by then what he
did because he had soured me of ever returning to college. Little did I know that I would be seeking a
Master’s degree in the future?
I was hired as Senior Engineer at Malta
Manufacturing
two weeks before I graduated in March, 1990 at $10,000.00 more a year
than I
had been making previously. That more
than reimbursed me for getting my degree. I worked there until they closed, then I decided it was time to
see if I
could compete and hold my own with the “big boys” in the “big
city”. I took a job in
Middle Adulthood
I have been there ever since. This past summer, I temporarily put my
business on hold and I told my daughter that when the renovation of the
house
we are currently working on is completed that I am turning that
business solely
over to her. My poor health issues have
crept up on me once again and I have been diagnosed as epileptic in the
past month. Since this class started, I
have had three
EEG’s, an MRI, a CAT scan and an all day trip to the hospital when my
husband found me in a comatose state. I
have taught all my classes, except for the day I spent at the hospital
and I
have stayed up late many evenings in order to keep up with our
assignments and
to support my teammates. What I started
back in 1968, I intend to finish. I do
not know when that will be or how, but I do know that my family will be
with me
from start to finish.
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